At the end of the day, it is up to you.
It is up to you on how you decide to spend your time, your money, your energy, and as a whole, your life.
Many people place blame onto others as to why they are unable to do what they want in this life. They pose as this victim by creating every excuse in the book as to why it simply can’t be done for them. Reasons why they are unable to get fit, to make money, to create a life of their own…anything that they are unable to do. This type of person will always find problems with what needs to be done.
Hold yourself accountable rather passing the blame. The decision is yours because it is your life, not theirs.
Another issue people tend to face is the opinions of others.
Many believe to be held hostage by the opinions of the ones around them and that these people are the ones to blame for their personal misfortune.
The only thing that matters in this life is the belief and support you have FOR YOURSELF. By believing the opinions of others it allows them to have some sort of control over your decisions.
NEWS FLASH: THEY DON’T, NOR WILL THEY EVER.
The idea that someone else made you do something is such a chicken sh*t excuse.
Rather than letting your family members, friends, or anyone in that matter, make you feel less of yourself or influence your decisions, you need to look in the mirror first.
It is NOT them making you feel this way, it is because of YOUR vision of YOURSELF.
- Don’t believe in yourself
- Are thinking negatively about yourself
- See the truth in the negative opinions of others
- Believe that there is someone else to blame
It is okay because you CAN change for the better.
Look introvertedly as to why your problems arise and fix the issues.
Change your mentality to see life in a totally different light, where you are the creator rather than the victim.
Aren’t you tired of feeling as if you are at someone else’s mercy?
At the end of the day, your life is one decision away from being extraordinary or mediocre.
Who do you want to make that decision?