PLEASE move with urgency when you are in a situation where you are being cared for.
There is nothing more uncomfortable than being in a situation where you are caring for someone and they are lackluster in their efforts to be on their own.
At the current moment, I am on the hunt for an apartment with my current roommate.
Due to the COVID situation, it has made things a tad bit harder to make anything happen.
At first it was getting a job, then it was providing pay slips with a job that I’ve had for only a week…mix that in with other complications, it has made the 6 week accommodation into almost 12…
For me, it has been pretty uncomfortable because I feel as if I have overstayed my welcome at my coaches house.
I have been living here rent free for the past 2 and a half months now.
Personally, I been doing my best to work 8 hours a day, train on my own, focus on the things that are important to me, stay healthy, search for other jobs AND search for aparments for my roommate and I.
It has been pretty overwhelming to say the least.
To those who are being cared for at the moment:
Take it one day at a time and continue with your efforts to branch out on your own.
As long as you show gratitude and effort that you have been doing your best to make things happen, you’ll be okay.
Just understand that you are a guest in their world.
Don’t overstay your welcome.
Don’t milk it for more because they haven’t said anything about it.
If people are gracious to do something like that, DON’T take advantage of it.