Choose Kindess

Life is simply too short to be holding grudges, being rude, or being ingenuine towards others, so why not choose kindness?

Being kind is cool as fuck.

I genuinely believe that if you are a kind human being, people enjoy being around you more.

They enjoy the energy that you bring to their life.

It shows that you honestly care about how they are doing and that you are being pure with your intentions.

By being kind, you bring value and positivity to others.

Most people may think that being seen as “kind” makes you a weak individual.

In my mind, it makes you stronger.

Being able to be kind to others when they are being rude to you, is a gift.

It is certainly much harder to do, rather than taking the easy route and being rude back.

We all have the same opportunity on a day-to-day basis.

Whenever you are faced with adversity, hardship, or rude people, we are confronted with two simple choices:

1) Match the negative energy you are faced with and spread more negative energy


2) Combat the negativity with kindness, allowing for positivity to be spread

When you dissect any sort of hardship or difficult situation, it is seriously that simple.

Before resorting to the easy way out, take a step back and think to yourself next time you are faced with a difficult situation:

“How can I handle this situation with Kindness?”

Choose kindness every second of everyday.

Being kind will pay off way more than being rude ever will.

What Is The Goal?

The goal in life is to ACTUALLY have and abundance of everything.

From wealth to happiness to health and every little thing in between, having an abundance of it ALL.

I feel as if more and more people are getting caught up in the shiny objects.

The fancy, expensive cars.

Spacious homes in beautiful areas.

Loads of money in the bank account.

Don’t get me wrong, I want all of that too.

But I want a life where I am comfortably able to do these things.

Where I don’t have to take out 3 different lines of credit to pay for a $80 thousand dollar car.

A life where I can comfortably pay my mortgage and provide for my family 100% of the time.

The goal for me is to ACTUALLY have an abundance of wealth and happiness.

Where as some want to LOOK like they have it all, when in reality, they have nothing.

Where do you lie?
Take the bridge over to where you want to be.

You Are Exactly What You Think You Are

“As you think, so shall you be.”

This is a HUGE part of what I stand for because it’s so simple, yet so powerful.

Everything in this life starts off as just a “thought”. A tiny, insignificant thought, that we as humans seriously overlook.

Why? Because our thoughts are our REALITY.

Whatever we think to be true, is 100% true in our own respect.

If you think like a loser, you will be a loser.*

If you think that you’ll never be able to achieve your dreams, you are 100% correct.*

If you think that you will never have a happy life, you probably won’t have a happy life. *

But on the opposite end of things…

If you think that you can achieve anything in this life, you are absolute correct.**

If you think that you will one day be rich, you will be rich one day.**

If you think you are confident, you will be confident.

I believe we as humans like to over-complicate the simplest of things, such as thoughts.

If used properly, out thoughts can be our best friend.

If used incorrectly, you can find yourself in deep, dark places because of your THOUGHTS.

Understand that your thoughts are more powerful than you truly think.

Learn how to use your thoughts properly and you will be a force to be reckoned with…

*You can learn how to change your thoughts into something positive and turn a loser mentality into something much more than just that.

**With the right mixture of action, passion and drive.

It’s the little things…It’s your thoughts.

Stop and smell the roses

As life goes on, you may find yourself focusing on a big goal, or dream, that is blinding you. Blinding you from what is in front of you in this very moment. 

The great people and family you have around you.

The happiness that is flowing through you. 

The blessings that are raining down on you. 

Take a second to realize how truly amazing it is to be alive in this time and just breathe. Take it all in. Don’t let any small detail in your life go unnoticed. The “big” is the end goal or dream. The “small” is what will get you there and keep you happy and motivated along the way. 

It’s the little things.